the princess dress

July 28th, 2010

I’m really not one for the whole princess thing. And I thought we had avoided it, until on her fourth birthday my daughter wished that “all princesses would be sparkly.” There has been a health dose of princessness since then, even though I rarely ever buy princess paraphernalia–and wow you can buy just about anything save for major appliances with a princess slapped on it.

It’s not so much the prince saving the princess that annoys me, it’s the total lack of substance on the part of the princess. Well, that and the rampant consumerism of it all (see above).  For the most part the princess just lies around looking pretty all day long. Because of that I rejected them outright until I found myself looking at a fashion magazine in the check out line and realized it was just grown up princess crap. So I guess if I can indulge in pretty girly things, I can indulge my daughter a little too.

And so the princess dress. It’s not sparkly or even very flooffy, but it’s pink and princessy and she loves it. The pattern is from Carefree Clothes for Girls and with it’s quilted bodice (that’s for you nan) and raw edges it’s more Cinderella before the ball than at the ball. The pattern was easy and a lot like the other dress I made from the book. The only part I couldn’t figure out were the button loops. There was a diagram on how to make them, cut I couldn’t decipher it out, so I just crocheted some chains with quilting thread and sewed them in. And it worked out well, washes up nicely, and gets dirty often. For me it’s a dress with a silly amount of baggage, but to her it’s just a pretty dress to pick flowers in.

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33 Responses to the princess dress

  1. joy says:

    …and it’s beautiful! I am not a fan of the princess culture either, but um, this dress is just lovely. And how wonderful that your daughter loves it so.

  2. Vanessa says:

    “Cinderella before the ball than at the ball” love that.
    and those button/loops on the back make it I think!

  3. Kimberly says:

    Oh it’s so, so pretty! I just adore all of the loving little details on it!

  4. Rae says:

    LOVE it!! So great. I have that fabric too and am waiting for the little girl to grow up a little before I use it, most likely on something like this.

  5. AJ says:

    It’s really, REALLY lovely? Care to make one for my princess too? ;) It’s got the perfect mix of mod and whimsy.

  6. Megan says:

    That is really beautiful – and I’m not a fan of princesses either!

    nice work!

  7. Rachel says:

    What a beautiful dress! I love it. Can’t wait until my girls are ready for dresses like that. Thanks for sharing!

  8. Roxy says:

    I love this dress! (And I hear you on the princess stuff . . . argh. I think the real princess world was sabotaged by the disney/walmart/ooky plastic princess crap). Anyhoo, love the dress!

  9. Dani says:

    Wow. Non-princessy princess wear score.

    I adore the raw edges. Adore.

  10. Kelly says:

    This dress is awesome! The quilted bodice is so very sweet. This is what I real princess should look like anyways.

  11. It looks great – much better than those store versions.

    But I’m with you on the princess stuff. I’ve told my kids that I’m allergic to the princess / Barbie aisle at the store and they believe me and treat it with the same respect as their dad’s cat allergy…

    Luckily my daughter has only shown the odd fleeting interest in princess stuff. When my son was a knight for Halloween a few years back, my daughter ended up being a maiden (not ladylike enough to be a lady…) and that’s about as close as she’s been to my making anything princess like.

  12. PS. Here’s an easy tutorial to follow for button loops: http://ysolda.com/support/pictorial-guides/sewn-button-loops/

  13. nath says:

    ha! this chimes so absolutely with me! we live next door to a little girl a bit older than Iris, whom Iris is v smitten by. Iris gave her one of her favourite books to borrow this evening, it’s called The Concrete Lorry, (Iris is a pleasing mix of tomboy and straight-up princess loving girl), and Lily gave her her best book, it’s only Disney Princess complete with push-button sound effects. you read the ‘story’ (very one-dimensional psuedo-moralistic clap-trap) and press the corresponding button when the text calls for it. Snow White says ‘oh my goodness’ about a million times. unfortunately, Iris loved it and clamoured endlessly for the ‘pink book’, argh, have all my efforts been in vain?!! i fear the disneyfication of my child.

    p.s. i had an idea for a non princess-y princess dress tonight, i am going to take one of Iris’s plain vests and sew onto the bottom, a frothy petticoat mass of net and ribbon. it won’t be pink though, oh no.

    p.p.s. sorry for the post-length comment.

    p.p.p.s that is one pretty dress, all those details? perfection.

  14. nath says:

    p.p.p.p.s argh, sorry for all the typos. gah, i hate that!

  15. Kirsty says:

    It’s gorgeous! The quilted bodice & the raw edge just absolutely make it in my opinion.

  16. Kirsty says:

    Sorry that was me.

  17. Anna says:

    it’s really a sweet dress. :) I too hope to avoid all things princess because of similar reasons to what you said about the consumerism of it all. I’m pretty sure I won’t be able to avoid it though, her friends all love princesses. Anyway, love the part where you said that it gets dirty often. I seem to always kind of cringe a bit each time a new stain shows up on something I made for my girls, but at least they wear them, right?!

  18. Very sweet.
    I have boys and get to avoid the whole princess thing but if I had a girl this is the type of princess garb I would make. Lovely job on the hand quilting.

  19. Megan says:

    I could have written this same post. We finally gave in at age 4, too (in fact, the fourth birthday had a princess theme). We do our best to avoid the commercial stuff, so I’ve ended up sewing a couple of costumes.
    Hang in there. I hear it’s just a phase.
    Your dress is lovely.

  20. The buttons are my favorite part, so lovely…

  21. um, Meg? what happened to your doorknob? reading this without a daughter, and with a faulty glass knob and two full-tilt boys of my own, THAT detail caught my eye–hope you aren’t trapped inside, forced to sew princess wear for the rest of your days.

  22. nanette says:

    three hearty cheers for the quilted bodice! Looking forward to your Autumn take on the quilted garment.

  23. Adey says:

    Oh, this is such a sweet dress!